Horrors of Being in a Relationship

It has been so long that I haven't been in a relationship. It was not that I couldn't get into a committment. I just didn't want to. But then I guess I've lost the reason as to why I refused to. And now that I am in one, I found that reason again. Its because I can never trust anyone except for myself. That's not the single reason but I think that's the biggest reason. I am a person who is always paranoid. I am one of those who think that man by nature is evil...that everybody's out to get you and strip you off of every clinging self-respect.

In the first part of a relationship, everybody's sure that everything will work out just the way they've pictured. They know this because they feel it. Then a month goes by, and then another...and their perspective of everything seem to change. Faults are found, imperfections are judged and worse hatred grows. And that feeling of being sure will fade into just a feeling once felt.

Between the beginning and the end, both tries to make things work. Promising and assuring each self that whatever's happening, the changes-- are all trials of a relationship. Though they try...the headache will always catch up and prove to be too overwhelming. Finding a reason, a way out will become priority number one. This is known as the graceful exit.

The last part of a relationship will become a complete silence. Both will stop reaching out to the other. The silence is the white flag...the surrender. Both will depend on the other for the next move. One will act out the break-up, the other will agree. Out of politeness, each will accept the blame even if the truth is they both blame each other. Often times a promise will say that they'd remain good friends...but one out of ten will stay true to their words. Most become strangers and nothing but familiar faces in memories-- and the rest...just part of history.

This was the usual routine for me. In every relationship I've been in, this was the story. Though its kind of happening now, I don't want to accept the fact that it is happening all over again. I refuse the similarity of the situation. Not because I'm trying to be a fool but because maybe it doesn't always have to work that way.

This relationship was built on a very different foundation. This is an actual relationship. For once I am hoping that we would surpass the four month mark. Four months being the longest I've been in a relationship. Everything in this relationship is changing me. Everything she is IS different from the usual. Maybe I am not trying to convince anyone...anyone except me. Maybe I am trying to reassure myself that all the difficulties that this relationship brings is worth going thru. That's what makes it different. In all the other relationships I've been, not one did I try defending from myself and my usual notion. SO...I guess its worth it all... I hope.

I rarely write nowadays. Maybe its because I now speak... and at least someone does listen. I miss writing.

Learning Again

The power of the mind is something which we all don't take seriously. Its one of the things we feel as if should be treated like those quotes sent to us through text messages. Ignore and delete, or read for the sake that someone important to us sent it but refuse to let the message sink in. Like everything else in the world that's in its place, its sad to say...that's just the way it is.

We wonder...why and how is it that when good things happen, they come in great number, all at the same time. Its the state we are in my friends. In our minds we are happy, so we find joy in everything no matter how small. Our mind control the events that unfold before us. Happiness equates to happiness if we put our mind into it.

This is not a contradiction to my previous posts about life's miseries. This is a simple acceptance of a newly learnt truth. Within darkness, are shining colors in hiding. Look and you'll find. Search and you'll discover. Its the continuous cycle of life. Though it may go in circles, its a situation we shouldn't fear. Eventually we'll regain things we lost. Be consoled. There is solace everywhere.

Happy New Year to everyone. Set your mind into having a great one... but keep complaining.:D

In Today's News...

I'm so sick and tired of getting bad news. I so often get them that I think its the only news I'll ever be getting for the rest of my life. The worst part of it is, I can't seem to get used to it. To be plagued by nothing but terrible, unbearable, painful, intolerable news...feels like I have never gone through the same lows. EVERY FREAKING TIME. Effin' news!

And I don't mean the NEWS news. I meant it as the result of something , a report of a recent event, the turning point of an action....whatever!

I can't play basketball anymore because it turns out, what was once just a temporary knee injury was actually a permanent ailment that I wouldn't never be able to get rid of. And that sucks. Its sucks to know that this leaves my slot in the roster of the team I'm playing for, up-for-grabs for next year's tournament. I will be Ross Gellar, the FRIEND who claimed to have given up a career in the game. I am too young to be a has-been.

People often ask the question, "can you see yourself ten years from now?" No matter how hard I've tried, before, I just couldn't. Now I'm finally able to. But what sucks is...I see myself as a thirty year old with a limp, a forty year old who shakes with every step, a fifty year old uncle who'd be full of anger for all the unfair things that life was so kind of to share. Never the good stuff... never the good stuff.

I'm becoming the Grinch...the Scrooge. BAH HAMBUG!

A family member, one who used to be the only person who knew me more than I knew myself, was startled to find out that I no longer am that person she knew. And she wondered why. I, too, myself. Its a mystery that people's expectations of you can be similar to your own... and to have to wonder both yourselves what happened, is another too. I am a snake...I shed my skin once every now and then to reveal my another me.

She thinks I have to see a shrink. I think I do too. But I already know I'm suffering from bipolar disorder. So why do I need a shrink to tell me I am extreme in almost everything?

With all these news...I am exhausted almost everyday. No matter how much I rest, I still feel exhausted. I no longer function properly. I am broken, send me to a repair shop.

...But exhaustion is good. I once read that exhaustion brings one closer to death. Maybe that would be a change. With all the bad news, that might actually be the good one.

I hate summer.

I know its winter...

But summer found me again.

How to Save a Life ... DeVille Style

No matter how hard I try, things just don't go the way I want it to be. I try to have enough patience to accept these mishaps. I tell myself that things like these happens -- shit happens. It's the way of life. But that doesn't work either. Like I said, no matter how hard I try, things just don't go the way I want it to be.

It doesn't take a genius to understand how life works. It takes someone who actually cares to figure it out. So who cares and who doesn't? There are only two kinds of people when it comes to understanding life. Like a deck of cards, you either get a high card or a low one. Nothing in between. And like a deck of cards, you are never sure with an ACE. Sometimes its a high card, sometimes its a low card...it only depends on the game you are playing.

Age doesn't prepare you for what's coming. It is not a helpful factor. Age only serves one purpose. That is for everyone to have an excuse someday. Excuse to possess authority over others, excuse to claim respect from others. It is a meaningless leverage. Age is nothing but a number.

Success doesn't equate to happiness. Happiness can be best defined as hypocrisy. How can anyone be happy when surrounded by discontent? Thru hypocrisy, one can. With hypocrisy, it can happen. This is the sad truth that every happy person hides. So what can be done to be able to get by? Face life with a little negativity. Its healthier that way. Accept every cruelty it can offer because...sometimes its better to drink iced tea in a coffee mug than hot coffee in a tall drinking glass.

Ran out of excuses, I apologize.

[i-pif-uh-nee]

What's an epiphany? Even in its definition in dictionaries...I don't get it. One thing I know though, it's the most common word used in every blogs. They would talk about epiphany. But no matter how they explain, I still don't get it. How do they know that THAT's epiphany?

What's an epiphany? Is it the moment when a montage of your life plays in your head which is triggered by the stupidest thing you've encountered that day?

What's an epiphany? Is it the moment when you're so convinced that you're doing the right thing and right after doing so, you realize you've done a huge mistake?

What's an epiphany? Is it the moment before sleeping that you wish you'd never wake up for the next day and when the next evening comes you are afraid to sleep because of that wish?

What's an epiphany? Is it the moment in your life when you see everything as if seeing things on a high definition television?

What's an epiphany? Is it the moment when you stand in front of the mirror and you just decide you are not who you were anymore?

What's an epiphany? Is it the moment when you've just decided to give up because you've realized you've never really tried in the first place?

What's an epiphany?

Is this it?

Change

First week

12 swimming pools, a collection of lush flora and fauna, a conference hall, 3 cottages and almost 30 people. That's how much it took to satisfy my craving for change. Change of everyday routine, of ideas, of perspective in life... change of personality. Because of these things, I realized how important everything was-- and how time was ready to steal every moment of happiness and turn it into the opposite which is why we have the need to live the very moment that we're in. We should reminisce the past and not dwell on it. We should care about the future and not worry about it. It is necessary that in the time we're in, the 'now' that we have, we make it matter-- not because of the nearing end but because of the worth we put to what we are doing. Prove that you don't want the moment to end by making it matter. I've changed, or I think I have... or the very least I've tried.

Second week

No money, no destination, a thousand and more unfamiliar faces, a mic connected to a filthy karaoke machine, good company, good food, and new friend. To be able to get-over the sad state of farewells, turn to the good side of tomorrow. Find comfort in the simplest things that can bury the anguish. Move forward, keep moving forward... and you'll find a hand willing to drag you up. Before you know it, you earn and earn the treasure of what this life can give. When you do, then at times you think about the past...you'll understand and see how much you've mattered-- how much difference you've made. And by your shine, you've let others too.

Let's Put A Smile On That Face

I'm back. But I ain't okay. I'm back. But my heart's behind me, dragged down along the asphalt. From where I stand, unlike a quicksand--I have to keep moving. If not, I'll be drowned to the painful truth of sorrowful neglect. I look up at the dark clouds up ahead, and I ask..."Why so serious?!"

Dream

*This song is alternately sung by male and female.

I've seen her once in my dreams
I've seen him wander in my head
Her beauty's so perfect, its how it seems
He looked so lonely and so sad

She was someone that I know
He remained a stranger
She was a wish that came true
But he was always around to linger

She was a dream and stayed a dream
He was a dream and stayed a dream
Nothing more but a dream
Nothing more but a dream (2x)

Where is he, I couldn't see
I'm trying to forget, I've gone away
Don't wake me up, don't le me be
It's not easy, I shouldn't stay

She was a dream and stayed a dream
He was a dream and stayed a dream
Nothing more but a dream
Nothing more but a dream (2x)



*Lyrics by Adnan Tamano and Najifah Pundug

Feverish Thoughts

Its getting harder to breathe.

An itch inside my throat is driving me insane.

What's worse is, I'm having trouble smoking. Pain in my head never seems to subside.

I just hate it when I am on one side and that side of my nose gets clogged. I just wanna get a shovel and dig out whatever is in that hole.

I can't pronounce the letter 'N'. I talk dumb.

I look awful.

I cough, hack, spit...and there it is. The disgusting greeny phlegm that becomes a swamp in the clean dark asphalt. And people would look, roll their eyes or hold back vomit. And I stare back, a challenging stare that says, " say it to my face!"

I sweat.

I wipe away and sweat some more. And its not even hot or warm. And worse, I shiver.

I do my 40 minutes aerobics. Why am I in this class? My classmates are 15-16 years old. Why did I NOT take this class back when I was a freshy?

Its getting harder to breathe again. I just wanna scream. I deny myself to think that my asthma's back.

This is just a fever, JUST a fever.

And there's that itch again.

"Make a Move and the Bunny Gets It"

If I were a three year old born on the 26th of June, I'll probably be making this little poem, enjoy...

"Put the Bunny Back In the Box"

My mommy's coming home on June 26th,
My birthday is June 26th,
I'm going to see my mommy for the first time ever on June 26th.

Sounds familiar? LOL:D I am just excited.

Despite It All, Something's Within

Tuesday

With hard curled fists thrown wildly at the huge man's jaw, landing with soft thuds --- it was enough as finishing touches to end the dispute of even I have lost track as of where, what and how it had begun in the first place. It felt good to release the anger in me, despite of the pain on my sides wherein a beating it had suffered from my opponent, it still felt good for my mind was denying the stings my body was taking.
I could taste blood from my mouth, sending me to flung one last kick towards the motionless body that lay before me. Ptooey! Spit on you. Yup, add insult to injury. That's more like it. Curse you.
Then I couldn't deny myself but think, how was this a good idea to resolve something? I could've walked away and let it be. Damn.

Wednesday

Where am I? I climbed up on my legs. They wobbled under my weight. I can't get up! Something's keeping me down. It felt like there were hundred tons placed on my back. I turned my head as far as it could go. Nothing. Only the misty air. The sky was dark grey. I was confused. Was it day time or night? I really had no idea.
Cold wind hit my face. I felt hot stings on my face. AAAAARGH! Painful! Verrrrry painful! I slowly watched my face take form on the puddle of clear water that lay strewn in front of me. My eyes watched in horror as I saw what caused the unbearable pain. My face...my face bore holes the size of a thumb in diameter and must've been as deep as an inch or more. I could clearly see my wounds amidst the bloody mess.
I turned to look at the figure beside me, still down on all fours. It was a familiar face. It was my father's. Pop...Hey Pop!...he couldn't hear me. I followed the path his eyes led to. He was watching the full moon. Suddenly the moon started to spill water. Seconds before I could say anything, water buried my legs, then climbed my waist. I tried to pull my father. He was rock solid as if he was a statue stuck on the floor. I looked around, everyone were in the same catatonic state. The water was now up to my neck. I couldn't see anything.
A face suddenly appeared before mine. It was someone I knew but I couldn't remember who. There was a freaky smile on her face. Her face suddenly wrinkled and as slowly as it had appeared, she transformed into an old lady. What's going on? My face still felt the stings. Hot hot hot. The water was scalding hot. What's going on!?!
This is judgement day, she said with the smile still on her face.

I woke up all wet with sweat, some trickled on my face and back. Despite the cold I was furiously sweating. I gasped for air as I shot up wide awake. My head whirred. I was dazed. With every breathe I caught, it choked me. I grabbed my covers and clung to it like a child. I was trying to make sure it was all a dream. I started wishing I was a child again. To be able to run to my parents to ask for assurance that it was all a bad dream. I silently prayed. Not for myself, but for my parents. I curled myself still at the end post corner of my bed.

Thursday

I hate being stuck. Not being able to get out of the house. After the busy days I've had enrolling at school, its time to await the day of the first for classes. Boredom, it tires me. Its too hot. It would probably rain later...but that would make it hotter than it already is. I'd rather feel too cold than be all hot. Maybe I'd go to the beach. It's just nearby. But I hate everything that's over rated. Like the sunset. I love the beach. I just hate the other reasons being there other than the clear cold waters. Its too early to go...but might be too late to decide to go. Stuck.

Friday

It rained again today. As usual. And this goddamned jeep ain't moving. Oohh...what's that up there? Yeah, the sky. Strange...it looked so beautiful. So still like a painting. All with its blue and purplish night sky while the sun's down going. It suddenly occured to me that it has been a long long long time since I've taken the time to stare and watch the sky up there. I've forgotten its beauty. Wow...its just amazing. From now on I'll be watching you. Yup. From now on I will catch every show. Is that a bunny!?!


***Based on actual events***

11:11 - Not As Weird As It Seems

"The numbers are the most attractive combination there is. You might think that it's the number you always see because of its uniformity and so it is hard to forget when it catches your eye, when actually, it doesn't differ with the number combination 8:30 but still a person would not think of anything peculiar about it."

This was the explanation I got from my Philo professor. I had to ask after having weird experiences in the number combination sightings myself. Very weird but then, not anymore.

"Here's how it happened to you. After your friend mentioned it, your mind sub-consciously became aware of the number thus leaving you feeling all weird in a sense of de ja vu-like manner. If you put your mind into something, what you choose to see is most likely what you'll see. As for your friend, it may be the uniformity of the number that attracted her eye."

This one's from my Psych professor. Case closed.

Persona Non Grata

The problem with growing up in an interracial community is growing up with no racial identity at all. Being mixed up with all the different cultures lets one choose beautiful bits and pieces from each of those that surrounds him/her. This is the advantage of the situation. But from the gathered pieces, most of them contradicts to the original one thus resulting to the unacceptance of one's real race.
Speaking of cultural indifferences is very similar to that of when discussing morality. What and which is moral or immoral? In one religion, an action might be seen as immoral while another might be the other way around. Let us not speak of religion though.
The question of people like me is, where do we stand? Where is our place? And lastly, the most common of all, who are we?
I am a citizen of a land I can't call home and a foreigner to that of I which I consider home. I have no place. I am the loophole in the pledge for patriotism. My criticisms are unaccepted in every possible point of view on both sides for I am either considered a racist or an ungrateful citizen.
We are silenced against our will. We are accused of lacking knowledge of the land which "morally" they say as ours. Again, morality--only a point of view/opinion. That's what I'll consider it.
The solution for my own peace will be to let go of all hearsays and let my mind speak free of will. Humility, an unforgiving method and an important recipe in the gulag simply called life.

Just Me

A year has gone by without saying goodbye. Its been a run. Its been one heck of a life. I am thankful for every blessings I've had. The family that never fails to ruin my day but still stay the love of my life. The good school that seems to never want to let me move on with a good life without going thru its torture. The money that stays lost even when its found. The friends that hates me for whom I've become but loves me for being who I am. Everything I have said is all meant to be good. For they played a vital part on who I am. So even a bad is good as it is part of the irony of living which "they" call balance.

Its my birthday today. I don't know what's the big deal with them birthdays. I mean, okay okay a person was born on the given date! So what!?! I was raised in a family that never celebrates birthdays because of religious beliefs. I for one should get used to not making a big deal out of it. But here I am and blimey yes it is a big deal when people do forget about it. Hoosah.

So I am starting my day with the usual loneliness. Uh-huh. A day all to myself is a good thing, I'd usually say. My birthdays are spent as days of reflection. These are the times I do listen to "older" people's advices. I have not recieved a single encouragement for my dreams. Somehow everyone thinks that I would do better if I went the other way. There is no potential in me that will work with other "opportunities" other than for that of which I love. Crazy crazy world out there with crazy crazy people.

My awareness has been very keeny lately. Literally speaking. Just a while ago, I was looking for a decent place to have brunch in. And I came across a little diner which scared the hell out of me. Why? Because it was called Ran's Goattee. I was curious but not enough to try the place out. I mean what in the world do they serve in there? Moustache soup, fried goatee, steamed sideburns and iced pubic hair for dessert!?! Like I said, crazy crazy crazy world with people of the same state.

Its good to know that though I am becoming older, some things in me just don't change. My constant complaining for one. I love to complain about everything. It makes everything easier to deal with. So I give myself credit for being such an ass...most of the time. I mean, why not? After all, it just me.

"-holic" Frolic

We all have different kinds of stuff that keeps us hooked unconsciously. I believe that to truly fight the urges of having too much of what isn't supposedly the safe amount, we have to accept to ourselves the true nature of what we have become. So here are my few addiction.

1st addiction:
This was waaaaay back. I was a kid then. My life revolved around food. I mean, I was fat then....obese fat! The mere thought of losing weight sounded so crazy. Food was my only friend. It was my only escape to feeling bad about myself. Whenever I think of my weight, I say to myself--"Think of the FOOD man!". I was a food-a-holic!!!

2nd addiction:
To get rid of my addiction to food, I tried so many things in-order to forget about it. So I started working-out. And it did the job all right. I lost millions of pounds and I was able to fit into pants that were sold on boutiques! Yeah that was one helluva experience the first time I bought a pair of pants that were sized 30. *Sniff-sniff*. But then I missed the whole point of my working-out that it was getting pretty unhealthy. I would work-out early in the morning then at in the afternoon then at evening just before going to bed. I totally stopped eating because I thought that it was ruining my sessions. I think this might count as a work-a-holic.

3rd Addiction:
It was not until I looked like a junkie that I was able to stop. I quit working-out and made myself busy by trying to hook-up with as many women as I could get. I mean, hey they tend to keep me busy from working-out or eating too much. And for a while it worked. But where could I get as many women as I could? Answer: Bars and Clubs. Unfortunately, something else occupied most of my time. Alcohol--yes booze! For a year and 2 months, I couldn't be go on a day without atleast a bottle of cold, cold beer. When my craving was ultimately too much to control, I finally accepted the fact that I had become an alcoholic.

4th Addiction:
I had a hard time figuring out how to cure myself of the disease brought to me by all the drinking. It was very difficult. I had no other solutions. I spend almost all my allowance on just booze. So what I did? I had to get rid of my money. My only solution was to spend it all--shopping. Sadly it did get out of control again. Suddenly I was spending too much on useless stuff. I buy too much dvds and I don't even watch them, I buy too many clothes most of which I don't even wear, I buy lots and lots of crazy things which now doesn't even make sense anymore. I went out shopping too much like a woman! It was getting pretty scary. I was a shop-a-holic.

The bad thing is I went back to my first addiction to cure my 4th addiction. And then I'm gonna have to got thru my 2nd addiction to get rid of the 1st! I am going round and round till I find a solution to all these four. Its crazy I know. But what can I do!?! I badly need help. Stuff like these are one of those in life that you can't seem to make sense out of. It is crazy to let a situation get out-of-hand but the question is, when do you know its becoming an addiction? Sometimes you can't even accept the fact that it is an addiction. I am very thankful though that I haven't been into the worst kind of addiction--drugs. Still, I think my issues are bad enough.
Situations like these are just way beyond our control. These are the times when I wish I have the guts to trust in God and just pray for help. But my philosophy sometimes contradicts that. I mean you cannot just rely on everything to God. I believe in the saying that, "God helps those who help themselves". I just don't know if I have done everything to help myself. Thus I go on trying to figure out a way to conquer these things that eat me empty.

Holden at 20

I missed reading books. So I got myself a treat yesterday by going to the bookstore and getting me a new book. Actually it ain't new at all, its a classic. "The Catcher in the Rye" by J.D. Salinger. It had been recommended to me numerous times already. I was really curious why.
It took me less than a day to read...and PHEW...what a boring book. Atleast that's what I thought at first. I mean, I hated the way the character, Holden Caulfield, kept repeating what he said. But after getting used to it midway thru the book, everything got more interesting.
Its really a book about what goes on in the head of Holden, a 1st class fuck-up. After being axed from his third school, he suddenly goes into a phase wherein he had to go soul searching. Well there wasn't much of a search rather than clearing his head up from what troubled him.
I was surprised with the similarity of what goes on in his life with mine. Depression really gets the best out of you. With each trouble he comes face-to-face with, he runs away from it as this was his solution of problems. Somehow he never likes anything at all, and he tries to find the fault in everything and everyone just to justify his acts. Calling everyone a phony and all. That's all me! Do I just love escaping the 'real world'...
What I loved about his personality was how caring he was with his brothers, one of them specially--Allie, who passed away at the age thirteen. It was also very touching the closeness he had with his younger sister, Phoebe Caulfield.
Phoebe is my favorite character in the book. She's such an adorable angel. Very innocent and smart. She's the baby sister I never had!:D I don't know why, but I know three Phoebe's...of course only one in real person, and the other two characters from a tv sitcom and a book. But all seem so bubbly and cheery. Maybe I'd be calling my future-daughter by that name. Its such a "fun" one. Unlike the name Holden...too boring.
Here's a line I loved from the book. It came as an advice from Holden's former teacher Mr. Antolini. "The mark of an immature man is that he wants to die nobly for a cause, while the mark of a mature man is that he wants to live humbly for one." This he claims, came from a psycho-analyst named Wilhelm Stekel.
As I read the book, I was amazed at how it almost resembled my life and thoughts. Well, I guess some books are just meant to be written for certain people. And this one surely was meant for me. In fact, I am beginning to love the book (its the kind that you'd love after reading and not while reading!), I bought a movie just because it was about a man who became obsessed with it. I think the movie is about John Lennon's killer, I don't know coz I haven't seen it yet. It stars Jared Leto and Lindsay Lohan entitled Chapter 27. FYI, the book has 26 chapters!:D

Speaking of movies, books, and obsession, I saw a movie yesterday that embodies those three. Starring Jim Carrey, entitled The Number 23. This movie I highly recommend to the fans of the actor, to those with obsession with numbers ( such as SHARI and her 11:11!), but definitely not to movie critics. Its a psycho-thriller about a guy who became obsessed with the number 23 after reading about a book that was similar with his life. Very freaky. Heads-Up to Jim Carrey's acting and the writers and director's creativity. Love it!

"You can't have enough of FRIENDS"

I believe a person can be a combination of many people. As for my analysis of myself, I find in me traits of 6 people. This is what I have gathered so far after all those times of search...or I guess from watching too much F.R.I.E.N.D.S.! So which "friend" am I? Let's take a look...

I am part Ross Geller. Why? I guess I could say I am, *ahem ahem*, intelligent, highly emotional (which I shouldn't be so proud of!), and romantic. Yes I could be romantic when I want to! Oh, and sometimes I just talk too much about stuff I do which I am sure at most times nobody listens to or even cares. Still, that's a good thing. Plus, I do get my fair share of the ladies...unlike Mr. Bing.

And there's Phoebe Buffay. Just like her, I am a positive thinker...in my own kind of way. I love music just as she does, and yes, I think we are both bad at singing!:D Oh, and in my family, I am the massuese! Her sense of bohemian living...that's just me! I am not a vegetarian but I don't eat beef, so I guess we could count that in.

To start it with, I have a weird name. In my country that is. Not as interesting as Chandler Bing though. In school, some people still call me Adrian Tamayo. No, it doesn't have anything to do with my hand-writing. There are instances that when they hear I am a Muslim, they call me Abdul or Mohammad. They just assume that's my name! I mean, WHAT'S UP WITH THAT!?! There's also the thing about bad jokes...I am always on fire with that one. Here's something we share...we are both "observers of everyone's life--especially our own!" But then I forgot why that's a good thing.

Rachel Greene? Well, I love fashion. Sometimes I am this completely obnoxious person who, at times, are mean than that of the right amount of which I should be. Still I care too much of my friends. And yes, I try to learn on life's lessons. So pretty much same as hers.

I used to be fat. That sums up to Monica Geller. Enough said.

Lastly, Joey Tribbiani completes my being. Hey, I know what you're thinking, that's not what I meant!!! Aside from wanting to be Al Pacino... I love pizza, women, the city, women, movies, women, and lastly (and most importantly!), MYSELF.

Random

Summer vacation has finally come. Whew...school has nothing but pure torture with a capital 'T'. Its been a crazy school year and I think my grades would be as crazy. But right now I wouldn't wanna think about that.

Some of my friends graduated yesterday. Man, do I envy them. To think of it though...a lot more complicated problems they'd be facing. Fresh grad in other words mean unemployed. So bumming for a while just to cherish that little time of freedom is what separates them from the watchful eyes of the society...or might even be life's own. Goodluck guys.

Congratulations to my sis Jehanie Edenisa Tamano-Mustari!:) She just graduated yesterday too. I am so proud of her. She has always been one of my heroes. Why? There are a lot of reasons...but here's my favorite one...Its because of the way she treats me as if I was still that little boy. God I miss being a kid.

Been watching a lot of movies lately. I highly recommend RENT. Its another one of those bohemian musicals. Just watch it and you'll know why its good. Oh and don't believe people who say that 300 is a great movie. Sorry to tell you guys, but it totally sucks. Yeah cool graphics, but the story's just L-A-M-E!!!

Here's another thing I've learned. The word goodbye is such a killer. I've seen family, friends and lovers suffer from it. Its always better saying it to someone than being the one bid adieu to.

Here's a line that I totally love...Reality is different from actuality. So true.

Music...for those who loves house music/techno/rave, another recommendation from me are the songs Put Your Hands Up for Detroit and This Is Not Miami. Talk about club music. Just can't get enough of it.

As for my little fame, its finally dying out. After 2 weeks of being on tv, I am out of the limelight. And all that remains is the t-shirt freebie I got. Yesterday was the last show which had the segment of the whole thingy. So I guess, that's about it for my career in television. LOL:) AS IF.

How am I feeling today: I am tired, suffering from a hang-over, hungry...yet, still happy. Not fulfilled but satisfied. :)

Till then...gotta go, cheerio. Be cool.

Whatever Goes

Yesterday was fun too. I know I've spoken about not topping the fun I had on february 23. Indeed that can't be beaten. But yesterday was fun in a different way. Me and my teammates from the SIRAJ's Amazing Race went to the beach for some get-together. I love the beach...its relaxing ambience makes everything seem so serene even with the noise of the splashing waves and crowd all over. So there, I still am capable of having fun.:)

Here's a little friendly advice...if you want to have fun, don't try too hard.

Sunsets are so over-rated when it comes to romantic settings. Seeing couples doing their thing is a pretty common scene... and still people fall for it. That's the kind of image I want to leave behind. Nope, not romantic. To be over-rated is better than being good at something but never be noticed.

I miss people and I hope people miss me too. This is one proof that life is temporary. People come and go. Sometimes you get lucky and still be able to find those people who you have long lost track of. Most of the time you never will. Before they become blurred memories, let them know that one day you'll miss them.

I haven't been spending too much time at home this past few days. Been walking around a lot lately. I just love getting tired. I need to get this motivation set to a good thing. Otherwise I'd just have bulging muscle on my legs.

Thinking of shifting to a new course. I'm done proving myself to others. Yes, parents are other. They are not me. I just came from them, just a part of them. But I am something different. We all are. So this time I need to prove something to myself. I still don't know my self-worth. Lol.:) No I am not going to sell myself.

I promised to always say how I feel. As of the moment, I am still happy. But still I feel empty.